Negotiation in everyday life 1
Five more minutes!
This is how my 4 year old starts negotiating. Five more minutes until we leave the playground, television or her best friend’s place.
This doesn’t always work. Sometimes the baby is crying and we have to leave right away. Sometimes we’ve already run late. But it works quite often.
She gets five more minutes until I get ready to leave or turn the TV off.
Even if she doesn’t succeed to get her five minutes for a couple of times, she won’t give up. There is always a chance and she will do all her best to get the chance.
Do I do the same? Not always. I usually prejudge the answer. They won’t let us. Let’s not hear the no.
Once she asked me to take her to a random bouncy castle on a school yard. I was sure they won’t let us and told her not to get upset when she hears no. But they welcomed us and gave us crafts...